Girls don’t have it easy. Not only do we have to put up with our boyfriends but we also have to keep things in line. Seeing as we’re looking for the perfect guy to take our hand in marriage, we must keep him away from the competition.
For this, there are two ways to go about it. You either fully trust him and eventually live happily ever after or you keep him in check by tracking what he does.
Whilst the latter isn’t something that a lot of people approve, it is a great way to see if our boyfriend is up to no good.
Since women are becoming more and more predatory towards guys with girlfriends, the temptation is significantly bigger.
And seeing as our phones are the easiest way to talk to people, and other girls, it’s only natural that we do something about it. So if you’re suspicious that your boyfriend is talking to other girls, here are ways how to track him.
If your man has an Instagram account, then you can easily track it. Instagram is the ultimate stalking app where people would do anything to get noticed by others.
This creates a predatory culture where guys and girls would prey on each other. And given Instagram’s very vague rules on nudity, it’s very easy to get tempted by a picture you see posted by someone else.
Women make up a significant number of users on the platform. And it is these women that you should be worried about. Seeing as your boyfriend could follow anyone they wish, tracking who they follow has never been easier on the app.
Guys have a hard time checkout girls that post hot and provocative pics in their swimsuits. And who could blame them; they’re men.
But Instagram doesn’t offer a lot of tracking features. Beyond the location feature, seeing who they follow, and what pictures they like, Instagram is pretty much an empty bowl of nudity that can easily expose a person’s interests.
While this makes it a shoo-in, your boyfriend could always be careful with what they do on Instagram.
So, that puts us nicely to our second way of tracking which is a traditional tracking app…
2. Tracking Apps
Tracking apps are supposed to be used to keep our children away from harm. It wasn’t until one of these apps came to be that us jealous gals saw the potential in them.
To put it shortly, you can track anyone with these apps. Although it is rather difficult to set a tracking app on someone else’s phone.
There are hundreds if not thousands of these apps that can help you track your boyfriend. Some of these apps do not even require manual set up on someone else’s phone; all you need is their phone number.
If you aren’t particularly skilled in tracking apps or how they operate or even how to set up one manually, then this is your best option.
These apps make it possible for you to track anything from their location, to who they talk to, to who they even open on Instagram; although this last one is pretty rare with these apps.
Many of the tracking apps that don’t require physical installation onto someone else’s phone require the person’s phone number or their iCloud account.
For more information about how to set up one, make sure to click here.
3. Hire a Private Investigator
This is one of the most expensive ways to track your boyfriend, but one that doesn’t involve digging into their Instagram DMs.
A private investigator is more than capable of uncovering any little secret. This person is far more capable of investigating than you’ll ever be.
And this person also knows what to do when dealing with a boyfriend. A PI has all the tools necessary to get the job done. But like we said, hiring a private investigator even for tracking will cost you a pretty penny.
But, make no mistake about it, if your boyfriend is up to no good then the professional will uncover it.
When hiring a private investigator, there is one more thing you should know about. If we put all the fees and costs aside, a very important thing to know is if the person gets caught investigating.
Investigating is only possible if you have caused or by the official authorities. Anything else might result in a lawsuit. And make no mistake about it, your boyfriend will sue the PI if they get caught. What’s more damning is that you’ll also get dragging into the legal process as you’re the person hiring the PI.
Ultimately, you’ll end up with a broken relationship and lots of legal fees to cover.
Foursquare is yet another app that people see a lot of potential in. This app is a social network where the idea is to be visible and people to see where you’re actually at.
There isn’t much security from outside eyes when you’re on Foursquare. The purpose of the app is for you to go someplace, post where you’re at, and what you’re doing with whom.
If you’re eating at a fancy restaurant, then you’re meant to post which restaurant and what you’re eating. Sometimes, you might even include the people you’re eating with.
And this is why this app is so great. You could simply monitor what they’re up to using only Foursquare.
But neither Instagram nor Foursquare offers definitive proof of anything. Also, who’s to say that your boyfriend won’t simply hide any unwanted information?
The only real way to track is to either use a tracking app or to hire a person to do it.
And while people are against tracking people, sometimes we must do it as our future with the person might be at stake.
We’ve mentioned a few ways to track your boyfriend, and there are dozens of others as well. You could track based on GPS location, phone activity, and even what they’re posting online.